These 10 Messages of the Prophet in Women When Serving Husbands in Beds

Connecting husband and wife when married is important for obtaining offspring. Serving the husband in bed is an obligation for his wife because it is part of the way the wife makes her husband happy.

Understanding the importance of the need for it, a Muslim woman (wife) is required to be smart in carrying herself while in bed and serving her husband. Relationship between husband and wife also has ethics that must be maintained. We should as the people of the Prophet Muhammad to always do the sunnah as exemplified by the Apostle. The following are ethics that must be guarded by a wife when they are in the bed as the message of the Prophet:

1. Meet the husband's invitation as soon as possible

One of the tasks for a wife is to serve her husband to make her happy. Therefore, when he asks his wife to serve him, then as soon as possible a wife must make her husband's request, even serving her husband on the first night.

2. Organize the comfort of the bed well

The bed is the most important place in making husband and wife relations. Therefore, as much as possible a woman must be able to make the place comfortable to use.

3. Giving Shades of Intimacy by Always Appearing Attractive

Husbands and wives must maintain their intimacy so that marriage can be well established. The way a wife can do is to make an attractive appearance so that the husband does not turn to another heart.

4. Don't imagine another man's body

Although just imagining, God forbids women from doing so. Because we already have a husband and must maintain lust so as not to be attracted to other men.

5. Look stunning every time you see it

Seeing loved ones is a joy for humans. Likewise with a husband who is very happy when his wife is gentle, especially with a charming appearance.

6. Not related to childbirth and menstruation

A proposition has explained that it is forbidden for women who experience menstruation and childbirth to have a husband and wife relationship. Besides being unlawful, medically this will also cause harm to women. He will experience tremendous pain when having a husband and wife relationship during menstruation or childbirth.

7. Not related to the rectum

The Apostle explained how to do husband and wife relations well. God has also created the right way to make this connection. Anal is a way that is forbidden by God when related. Therefore, do not make marital relations through the rectum because it will hurt the wife.

8. Don't look at the husband's vital parts

During the relationship, do not look at the husband's vital parts because this will increase lust even though he is not doing it. This is one of the messages made by the Prophet.

9. Knowing ethics relates correctly

Ethics related to husband and wife is needed so that we do not do things that are forbidden by God.



10. Keep matters in bed with others

The husband and wife relationship is their secret so no one else can know, even though it's the closest person.

Understanding some of the Prophet's Sunnah as taught by the Apostle will help us in understanding the ethics of husband and wife in accordance with Islamic teachings. Thus the message of the Messenger of Allah to women while serving their husbands in bed.